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Identity shifting month ..
My key takeaways from IRL London

Week in my life - 10/23 - 10/29
Yooo!
What is going on beautiful people?
I swear I just wrote an email wrapping up the month of September.
Now that October has come and gone, I think it’s always good to reflect on the month.
How did you feel? What do you feel like you could improve on? What were you prioritizing?
I can’t stress how important it is to always ask yourself the tough questions.
The questions that you always want to avoid (I’m guilty of it as well).
For me, this month has been completely identity-shifting.
And I truly think that the London meet-up was a big catalyst for that.
I always talk about how great the meet-ups are for everyone.
For us all to travel, have fun, and get to know each other.
But for me, it’s a lot more than just that.
After this trip as well as the Miami one, I like to sit with myself.
Sit with myself, pick up a notebook, and write down my key takeaways.
One key takeaway from that experience for me was confidence.
Confidence in my plan and my vision.
Everything now just seems to slowly come together like a jigsaw puzzle.
The experience was most definitely an expander for me.
Meaning it has expanded my belief system in what I can accomplish and who I can become.
The reason is because of the people I was with.
When you’re on this journey and start to go after your fullest potential, you can’t help but see all the potential in everyone around you.
So being around those guys, their visions were as clear as day to me.
And that allowed me to really gain way more confidence in the person I am and slowly mold into.
I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t just say that I trust the process but genuinely believe it to my core.
So with that being said, it’s time to leverage all this momentum from this London trip and continue this never-ending journey.
I’m currently typing this out in Germany as I’m wrapping up this house-sit and traveling to Luxembourg and Belgium.
Will be filming some content there, mainly interviewing strangers for my personal account so that should be a ton of fun.
I also have lots of exciting IRL content to come as well.
The first big piece of content on YouTube will be The IRL Podcast Ep. 2 - London Edition.
I haven’t filmed many podcasts, however, this one was by far my favorite.
We filmed the podcast with all 7 of us who came to IRL London.
It will be uploaded sometime this week and I can’t wait to share that with you guys as I think you guys will get a ton of value out of it.
Take care guys and let’s absolutely crush this week together :)
Much luv,
Jared